My Baby Daddy


Lots has been going on these days.

Christmas decorations and preparations.  Parties and get-togethers.

The unfortunate passing of a family member.

The anniversary of another loved one's passing.

Life has been busy and happy and sad all at once.

But today, while we can, let's focus on the happy.

Today, while there's time, let's talk about the joyful.

Because this week, for the first time ever (legally, at least), my son has a daddy.

It's been a work in progress for many months that we started discussing when we started discussing "Someday".

And when we got engaged and "Someday" began to look like "Someday soon", we put the wheels in motion, getting biological paternal rights signed away this summer so that there would be no obstacles for the adoption.

Thankfully I still consider that person somewhat of a friend, so he did the only thing I've asked of him in the 6 years since I found out I was pregnant with Ty.

And after that, all we had to do was get married!

And that's one of the first things my wonderful husband wanted to do after we got home.

We hadn't even made it back from our honeymoon when he brought up the adoption and let me know that he wanted to start it and hopefully have it finalized by Christmas.

And many thanks to our attorney, Paul Lindsey, who was able to do just that!

Because on Wednesday, it was final!  The man that Ty's been calling Daddy for six months now is finally, legally, and completely my little boy's Daddy.

Merry Christmas to you all!  We've already been given the best present we could ask for!
Ashley Wife & Mom

Ashley is a thirty-something wife and mother of two boys. She enjoys spending time with her family, as well as reading and decorating their home. Her blogging adventures began in 2006 as a single mother and have carried on through marriage and a new life with a husband, a ten-year-old, and an infant.