Be Careful Little Mouth
Yesterday, we got to talk about the latter.
We've been seeing some major changes in Ty since school started (as happens every year). He's been saying things that he knows he shouldn't say. Calling people names. Arguing, attitude...
When school starts every year, parents know that at least one of two things are going to happen. Either your child's going to get sick or get a cold, or you're child's going to start behaving like someone else's heathen child.
Again, we're dealing with the latter.
And it's been breaking my heart because I know my kid really is a good kid. He's just not making good choices at the moment.
So when Mom & Dad are informed that it's been a problem elsewhere, we decided we needed to step up the repurcussions to get his attention.
So Ty was given two choices.
A paddling or a full-minute with soap in his mouth.
The pained look on his face showed that neither choice was appealing, but in the end he chose the punishment that I--personally--was hoping he'd choose.
Because that brings in a lesson of washing bad words and bad attitudes out of our mouth.
So after 60 seconds of soap-in-the-mouth, we had a discussion about choices. What other choices he could have made; how better he could have handled himself and the kid he was upset at. After dicussing that and what the consequences would be next time he was finally allowed to go spit the taste of soap out of his mouth and get some water.
And he was his old self after that! My well behaved, fun and funny little boy resurfaced again!
Let's just hope he sticks around a little longer this time.
Ashley is a thirty-something wife and mother of two boys. She enjoys spending time with her family, as well as reading and decorating their home. Her blogging adventures began in 2006 as a single mother and have carried on through marriage and a new life with a husband, a ten-year-old, and an infant.